Food for the Soul

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Self-Care Assessment

Evaluate your current self-care practices across spiritual, emotional, physical, and relational dimensions — and build a personalized, sustainable plan for whole-person wellness.

"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."

— 1 Corinthians 6:19–20
This assessment is a compassionate check-in — not a report card. Be honest with yourself as you reflect on each area of your life. The goal is awareness, not perfection. You deserve care. 🌸
Section 1 — Overall Wellness Check-In

Before diving in, rate your overall sense of wellbeing today on a scale of 1 to 10.

1Depleted
2
3Struggling
4
5Getting By
6
7Fairly Well
8
9Thriving
10Flourishing
Section 2 — The Four Dimensions of Self-Care

Rate each dimension 1–5 (1 = very neglected, 5 = well-tended). Then answer the reflection questions.

🙏 Spiritual Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
  • Daily prayer or devotional time
  • Regular scripture reading
  • Attending church / faith community
  • Stillness / contemplative practice
  • Journaling / spiritual reflection
💛 Emotional Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
  • Naming and expressing my feelings
  • Seeking support when struggling
  • Setting healthy emotional boundaries
  • Doing things that bring me joy
  • Processing grief, anger, or pain
💪 Physical Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
  • Getting 7–9 hours of sleep
  • Regular movement or exercise
  • Nourishing, balanced meals
  • Staying hydrated throughout the day
  • Medical / dental check-ups
🤝 Relational Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
  • Spending quality time with loved ones
  • Communicating my needs clearly
  • Releasing toxic or draining relationships
  • Asking for help when I need it
  • Giving and receiving encouragement
Section 3 — My Wheel of Wellness

Rate each area of life 1–5 by coloring or marking the boxes. 1 = very low, 5 = thriving.

🙏 Faith
1
2
3
4
5
❤️ Relationships
1
2
3
4
5
💼 Work / Purpose
1
2
3
4
5
🏃 Physical Health
1
2
3
4
5
💭 Mental Health
1
2
3
4
5
💰 Finances
1
2
3
4
5
🎨 Joy / Play
1
2
3
4
5
🌿 Rest / Renewal
1
2
3
4
5
Section 4 — What Gets in My Way?

Self-care barriers are real. Identifying them is the first step to overcoming them.

  • I feel guilty putting myself first
  • I don't have enough time
  • I don't know where to start
  • I feel too exhausted to do anything
  • I don't think I deserve care
  • Financial limitations
  • Lack of support from others
  • Past patterns / habits are hard to break
  • Physical health limitations
  • Mental health challenges
Section 5 — My Personalized Self-Care Plan

Choose one intentional practice for each dimension. Start small — consistency matters more than perfection.

Dimension My Practice This Month When / How Often Support I Need
🙏 Spiritual
💛 Emotional
💪 Physical
🤝 Relational
Section 6 — Affirmations for the Self-Caring Soul

Read these aloud daily. Place a ✓ next to each one after speaking it today.

  • I am worthy of rest, renewal, and tender care — given to me by God and by myself.
  • Caring for myself is not selfish; it is how I show up fully for those I love.
  • My body is a gift. I honor it with nourishment, movement, and compassionate attention.
  • I release the guilt of saying no. Boundaries are an act of love — toward myself and others.
  • I choose one small act of self-care today, knowing it is enough.
  • I am not behind. I am exactly where I need to be on my healing journey.
My Notes & Reflections