Evaluate your current self-care practices across spiritual, emotional, physical, and relational dimensions — and build a personalized, sustainable plan for whole-person wellness.
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."
— 1 Corinthians 6:19–20
This assessment is a compassionate check-in — not a report card. Be honest with yourself as you reflect on each area of your life. The goal is awareness, not perfection. You deserve care. 🌸
Section 1 — Overall Wellness Check-In
Before diving in, rate your overall sense of wellbeing today on a scale of 1 to 10.
1Depleted
2
3Struggling
4
5Getting By
6
7Fairly Well
8
9Thriving
10Flourishing
Section 2 — The Four Dimensions of Self-Care
Rate each dimension 1–5 (1 = very neglected, 5 = well-tended). Then answer the reflection questions.
🙏 Spiritual Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
Daily prayer or devotional time
Regular scripture reading
Attending church / faith community
Stillness / contemplative practice
Journaling / spiritual reflection
💛 Emotional Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
Naming and expressing my feelings
Seeking support when struggling
Setting healthy emotional boundaries
Doing things that bring me joy
Processing grief, anger, or pain
💪 Physical Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
Getting 7–9 hours of sleep
Regular movement or exercise
Nourishing, balanced meals
Staying hydrated throughout the day
Medical / dental check-ups
🤝 Relational Self-Care
1
2
3
4
5
Spending quality time with loved ones
Communicating my needs clearly
Releasing toxic or draining relationships
Asking for help when I need it
Giving and receiving encouragement
Section 3 — My Wheel of Wellness
Rate each area of life 1–5 by coloring or marking the boxes. 1 = very low, 5 = thriving.
🙏Faith
1
2
3
4
5
❤️Relationships
1
2
3
4
5
💼Work / Purpose
1
2
3
4
5
🏃Physical Health
1
2
3
4
5
💭Mental Health
1
2
3
4
5
💰Finances
1
2
3
4
5
🎨Joy / Play
1
2
3
4
5
🌿Rest / Renewal
1
2
3
4
5
Section 4 — What Gets in My Way?
Self-care barriers are real. Identifying them is the first step to overcoming them.
I feel guilty putting myself first
I don't have enough time
I don't know where to start
I feel too exhausted to do anything
I don't think I deserve care
Financial limitations
Lack of support from others
Past patterns / habits are hard to break
Physical health limitations
Mental health challenges
Section 5 — My Personalized Self-Care Plan
Choose one intentional practice for each dimension. Start small — consistency matters more than perfection.
Dimension
My Practice This Month
When / How Often
Support I Need
🙏 Spiritual
💛 Emotional
💪 Physical
🤝 Relational
Section 6 — Affirmations for the Self-Caring Soul
Read these aloud daily. Place a ✓ next to each one after speaking it today.
I am worthy of rest, renewal, and tender care — given to me by God and by myself.
Caring for myself is not selfish; it is how I show up fully for those I love.
My body is a gift. I honor it with nourishment, movement, and compassionate attention.
I release the guilt of saying no. Boundaries are an act of love — toward myself and others.
I choose one small act of self-care today, knowing it is enough.
I am not behind. I am exactly where I need to be on my healing journey.